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c/family-recipe-swap•faithg26faithg26•2mo ago

My neighbor said a recipe isn't a real family recipe if you ever change it

I heard her say that at our block party in Springfield last weekend, and it really made me think. My great-grandma's biscuit recipe calls for lard, but I use butter because that's what I keep on hand. They still taste like home to me. I feel like a recipe is a living thing that adapts with your family. Has anyone else tweaked a classic and still felt it was truly theirs?
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kevin_hernandez83
Saw a food writer say recipes are love letters from the past, not prison sentences. Changing them for your own kitchen is how you keep the story going.
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michael519
michael5192mo ago
So your neighbor never improvises?
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laura_ross
laura_ross2mo ago
Honestly, that kind of thinking shows up everywhere, not just with recipes. It's like saying a song cover isn't real music because it's not the original recording. Traditions have to breathe a little to stay alive. If your great-grandma had only had butter, she would have used butter. You're keeping the heart of the recipe, which is making food for your family. The neighbor's rule would freeze everything in place, and nothing ever grows that way.
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