Warning: I picked a book for my club that I thought was a sure thing
I chose a popular thriller for our group in Austin, expecting a fun debate about the plot twist. Instead, the whole meeting turned into a fight about whether the main character was even likable, and we barely talked about the story. Has your club ever gotten totally stuck on a character detail and missed the bigger book?
Remember reading how some book clubs get stuck on a single point. It happens when a character feels too real and people bring their own stuff to it. Maybe your group just needed to get that out first.
That point about characters feeling too real is so true. We had a whole meeting derailed because someone saw their own mom in a character's flaws. Setting aside that vent time lets people get that personal stuff out so they can actually talk about the book's story.