My book club tried those prep notes last month and it actually got people more invested. I mean, having your thoughts sorted first lets you jump past the obvious stuff.

A razor-sharp chisel stops it from digging in too deep.

Wow, I used to think that too!

Making a whole policy about a sandwich feels like overthinking it. It's just lunch, not a contract negotiation. If they're being nice and it looks fine, why not eat it? Turning down a simple kindness can make things more awkward than just saying thanks.