Why not just learn both a little at a time?

Omgg, that's totally a thing! My friend Sam refused to ditch her heavy tent for years, thinking lighter meant flimsy. Then she borrowed a friend's on a rainy hike and woke up dry and convinced. Now she's all about saving weight too.

Yikes, @tara15, I feel seen. My own version of that is agreeing to tiny changes until the job has doubled. It's like a slow motion test of how much free work I'll give.